Written by Diya Palathanam

And among all the parts of the body, the tongue is a flame of fire. It is a world of wickedness, corrupting the entire body. It can set your whole life on fire, for it is set on fire by hell itself.” — James 3:6

The words we speak carry immense power. James 3 warns us that our words can be filled with poison. He contrasts two realities: lips that praise God and lips that curse those made in His image. Just as a single spark can ignite a forest, one careless word can cause great destruction. Therefore, our speech should glorify God and uplift those around us, not wound or tear them down.

“Do not use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.” — Ephesians 4:29

Anger and pride often lead to harmful speech. When we elevate ourselves above others, it shows in our attitudes and words. If we allow anger to poison our hearts, we become reckless, speaking words we later regret—words that fail to honor God. Scripture reminds us: “Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes.” (Ephesians 4:23). When the Holy Spirit transforms our minds, our words will reflect our faith. 

“Do not sin by letting anger control you.” — Ephesians 4:26

We are called not to walk in the way of scoffers (Psalm 1:1), but to speak with grace. This applies to how we address both believers and non-believers. As the light of the world, we must be set apart. Harsh words stir up anger (Proverbs 15:1), but gentle words turn away wrath. When we share our faith, our words should be kind and loving—words that build up rather than tear down.

“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” — Colossians 4:6

Though the tongue is small, it can cause immense damage. It can corrupt and ruin lives, especially when our words fail to honor God. For Christians, this is especially serious. If we claim to follow Christ but speak and live like the world, we misrepresent Him to others. Our words should encourage, spread love, and proclaim the Good News of Christ.

“Such people claim they know God, but they deny him by the way they live. They are detestable and disobedient, worthless for doing anything good.” — Titus 1:16

Let us, then, commit ourselves to speaking with kindness and integrity. May our words reflect Christ, not deny Him, and may our speech be a testimony of His love to everyone around us.

Diya Palathanam